Selfish or folish?

He who loves his friends doesn’t show it to her. He is always fooling around and his friend think of him as selfish...Until one day someone came. That someone is desperate to be love by the girl. But the girl knows that he loved her too. He chose to be hurt and avoid his friend knowing that someone will give her the love that she need. But somehow she who loves her friend cried inside as she see her friend go away and chose to sacrifice loving the someone who came knowing that its the desire of her friend. But he still suffers from his own selfishness if only he has said his feelings. So what do you think is he selfish or just foolish?